Friday, August 30, 2013

let's talk about feelings...

The past few weeks there have been negative comments made about my blog...in front of me.
Not only do I find this incredibly rude but these comments have really hurt my feelings.
I tried to play it off like it didn't bother me but they really did.
 
When I try to talk to others about the blog, I usually get my feelings hurt. I feel like they either think I am crazy, have no idea what I am so excited for or sometimes even think it is a huge waste of time.
 
I understand people that do not have a blog don't understand everything there is about blogging, because I had no idea what the blogging community was like before I started either.
Making comments about something I have posted on here in front of me and in front of a large group of people to be "funny" is not okay, neither is making smart comments about me making pictures to put on my blog.
 
 
With all this being said
Blogging is something I enjoy and something that I love doing so if you have a problem with me blogging or what I post on here or on my social media sites, please keep it to yourself.

8 comments:

  1. Wow! That's really horrible that people talk negatively about your blog in front of you like that. I think having a blog is brave. You're putting all of your thoughts out there for strangers to either relate to you or criticize you, but I don't think it's nice for people you know to criticize you or try to make fun of you in front of people. I try to talk to people about my blog, but they don't care to hear that. I guess I'd rather that than the negative comments :(

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  2. you know it's really sad when people do this- I'm sure you've heard this saying that "hurt people, hurt people..." and it's so true. I can't imagine personal comments being made from people I know....I get sad about the comments people make that I don't even know!
    did you know there's a website out there made JUST to bash blogs - yeah when you find a blog you don't like you go on there and bash it and link the blog back to their website. it's quite sad.
    a girl dissed me because i simply said my husband is the head of my household and we love Jesus....
    some people just have nothing good going for them in life and the only way they can get through the day is by dissing the people that DO have good going for them.
    I encourage you to stay strong and keep doing what you like.

    sorry for such a long comment. ha

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  3. I don't even understand why people leave rude comments.. It doesn't even make sense! Don't worry about them girl!! Hope your first week of classes went well!!
    PS. I love your blog!!

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  4. While I have never been judged openly for being a blogger but some people in my life, I do know there is judgement. But I have to remind myself that I started blogging for myself, not them. I am not going to let those who I feel are judgmental, even though they may be close family and friends and even if it does hurt my feelings a little, get in my way of doing what I enjoy doing. Hang in there, girl!

    Cheers,
    Alyson

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  5. That's so mean and rude! It would be easy for me to say ignore the negativity but I know that's much easier said than done. Just try to remember that there are way many more people out there with good things to say :)

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  6. That's crazy!! I'm sorry!! My mom still looks at me funny when I talk about my blog ha!

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  7. wow. that's why i didn't want to blog in the first place. thankfully some of my friends and family have been positively receptive to my new blog. i will probably be in the same boat as you the first time that anyone decides to say something negative about it! thanks for speaking out about it so i have someone to come to when it does happen! :)

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  8. I don't know why anyone would make fun of anything you put up here. Your blog is great! Definitely don't let those people get to you. I love reading your blog. Keep it up. :)

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